Reflection 19

I’ve never been opposed to homosexuality, I always thought of it as an interesting subject. When I was in seventh grade I had met my best friend Amairen, I would soon find out some years later, that she was a lesbian. I have been place in the homosexuality environment since then, and during my high school years I’ve come to realize that some of my best friends where homosexuals. I’ve learned that the cause of homosexuality is that you are simply born with it, and I believe that’s true. Society has been degraded from the old times, and simply girls really mistreat their bodies and expose themselves in matters that aren’t really proper. I believe that now, homosexuality is quote on quote in. Girls are more to explore the stages of homosexuality, but when they do so it effects with homosexuals who really are looking for other homosexuals, this is where my views have changed. I don’t believe you are homosexual if you have just decided a couple of months that you are one, I believe you have to be in a relationship and deal with what society says about you, for you to really be a homosexual. Yes, I have put standards for someone to be something, but it is ridiculous on how society has taken to the extremes about homosexuals. Like I said before, homosexuals are born with it. It isn’t a disease or something that can be cure; it’s their way of life, something that they can find happiness in. I’ve always been open minded to situations, but I believe homosexuality isn’t a situation. It’s a process that some people go through, like other people. They go through relationships, they have heart breaks, and yes they even have sex. Their no different from you or I and they live life the same way you do. What always bothered me about society was that everyone who was not a homosexual thought that they would constantly get hit on by a homosexual. Everyone has standards, if the girl next to you is straight and she doesn’t take interest in you, what makes you think a homosexual will? We all have standards we aren’t out to get anything with a penis, or anything with a vagina we want emotions, attractions, and someone who cares for us too. Society is still getting used to homosexuality, and sometimes they just need the knowledge about it, instead of constantly thinking that change is a bad thing, because this isn’t change, its been happening for years, now its just come out of its shell.