Human Diversity reflection 3

Paradigms are comparing a problem, based of a variety of series, which all lead up to the same outcome. Yet sometimes it doesn’t lead to the same outcome, it can also mean that, your theories allow you to make your assumption, but your assumptions might not be equal to the assumptions of another person. You can have as many theories as you want to allow you to help make your assumption, and your assumption doesn’t always equal right or wrong, as most people would think. If the person has a theory that make perfect sense, and if you add it up to an assumption that is valid, than their solution is correct. A paradigm isn’t how other people view you problems, its how you view you problems, and the theories and logically ways that you come up with, that help you solve your problem. This isn’t necessary the right or wrong way; it just helps you cope with how you deal with the situation.
As for a paradigm shift, this is when a person creates a challenging solution to problems, that he must create a solution by himself. He can create a solution that goes above and beyond the original problem, because of further problems dealing with the same solution. A paradigm shift, allows us to see multiple problems and solutions at a time, but that doesn’t mean we handle every problem and solution now. The problem and solutions are for later dates, which still conflict with the problem that you are facing today, but months from now, the problem will come again, with a different solution. What we get isn’t always what we see, when we write things on paper they make sense, but it usually takes time for us to experience the things, that later on in life we understand why they happen.
Yes, I have had a paradigm shift; I think everyone has had one without realizing it. The paradigm shift I had was, when I was younger everyone kept telling me to let go of a situation, because it was harmful for me to hold on to something that was lost many months ago. Instead of letting go, I continue to try to savior the relationship, while my partner was trying to end it. At the end it wasn’t me who let go, it was him. I began to think about the past, and why things ended the way they did. I also tried to allow myself to grasp onto what happen, and what was the cause of it. At the end there were many solutions to my problem. Yet, there became more than just one problem. At the end, I knew I could only handle one situation at a time, and the rest will unravel due time.
It’s important for teachers to experience a paradigm shift, because not everything is going to happen right here, and right now. Things come and go, but other things happen at a later date. No one can sit around waiting for something to happen without taking action. Not only towards yourself, but also towards others, in order to help others you must grasp the concept of helpings yourself, so you can help others. It doesn’t make sense for a psychologist to help their patients, when those their selves aren’t getting treated. So in order to teach what we know, we need to experience, and live through what we know, and grasp the concept, so we can teach others.