Human Diversity reflection 8

Human Diversity Reflection 8
This all comes down to Nature vs. Nurture really, the thing is the way you were brought up is what your parents wanted you to see, and what your parents thought you could do without for a couple of more years. What your parents install in you are morals and understanding that the life isn’t such a great place, but no matter how badly you mess up in your life time, their will be people who support, cherish and love you no matter what your decision is. Now of course along these guidelines are some called for good spanking because discipline is part of growing up. There are responsibilities as well as consequences for your actions, so choose wisely. Where as the media gives you life, when your ready for it or not, it doesn’t explain why you or given it, or what you do with it, and it sure as hell doesn’t help you out with it. It wants you to take life by the horns and run with it, what you do with it, isn’t really their concerns, and if you live or die, it’s just another person who wasn’t fit to survive in a world so young. I believe parents bring you up with compassion and morals. They teach you what is right in their eyes, and how to protect yourself from others. Where as society throws life tough lessons at you, and if you can’t deal with them, then why are you standing there, type of deal. I sure as hell didn’t learn gender roles only from one party, your society, the media, and my parents play a big role of who does what and what should be done. Though everyone plays their cards a little different, and nothing is right or wrong in a world where you make the rules.
I believe people are defined by what's in their mind and not what they are physiologically or actually. A girl can kiss other girls for attention but that doesn't make her gay. She would actually have to like girls in her mind to be gay. Her actions don't speak for what's really in her mind. So if in your mind you are a boy, then you are a boy. I think that everything we do and act upon is all in the moment, of what we think. If we linger over something for so long, and tell our mind how much we miss something, then no matter how bad or good that person is we will continue to miss that person. Society has taught us to think Barbies are for girls were hot wheels are for guys, also that woman are house wives, and men bring home the cash. Society makes you think that’s how things are suppose to run, but your family can show you different alternatives. And even so it can be also seen the other way around, were your family installs sexiest beliefs in you and you see different from what the media has to say.